There are very few minds who get trained from the very beginning of how to control one’s mind. Most of us are growing with the chaos of mind specially in today’s time when we are always dealing with so much on our plate. We are constantly micro managing our lives .Even when our lips are not moving our minds are constantly narrating ideas, thoughts, judging and questioning so fast and so much that at times there is utter chaos .. what do we do ?
Whatever happened yesterday we couldn’t control and yet whatever is going to happen our minds are constantly thinking about how to control tomorrow . Forget yesterday or tomorrow ... We often keep thinking as to what and how we are going to do the next very hour. Our parents , teachers, society are constantly reminding us of how to deal with our lives by making yesterday and tomorrow relevant. What about now?!! Why do we not think about the very moment that we are living . Life is to live and make the very best of it isn’t ? Why to control that thing which is not in our hands fuelling up our chaotic minds with more chaos . What’s important is how well we manage ourselves. Situation and circumstances will keep changing but what we must practise is to keep ourselves in control.
We must train our minds to listen to us. Tell your minds to be your friend, your guide and work in sync with your body and soul. Be present to the very moment you are living. Our lives will always be full of challenges , problems , questions because with that you learn , you unlearn , you connect with yourself , you fail and you succeed . If you find that there is a certain pattern happening in your life over and over again you must question and try to understand as to why it’s happening. It’s not because your luck is not in your favour or it’s not because this was meant to be but because there is a lesson life is throwing at us every time for us to learn and excel and to move on to the next one. There is nothing in this life which is coincidental. The only place you won’t deal with any problems is in your grave . Why not live each and every present moment with love, gratitude, kindness and faith . The right solutions and answers comes to you only when your mind is quite and in control. With the right & positive thoughts we can control our actions and certainly we can shape our tomorrow.
As we know “Yesterday is history , tomorrow is mystery and today is a gift that’s why we call it a present”